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Well, have you read through the FAQ? Do you understand the idea of the two layers, the Outer and the Inner? I think a piece of the problem has to do with a confusion between the two layers. Your boy is focusing entirely on the Outer Layer. He's putting all the responsibility on you and is just sitting there waiting for you to take complete control. But in doing that he's ignoring the Inner Layer, the level on which he is responsible for his part of the relationship. He's responsible for helping you find your dominance and confidence, and for helping you understand what he needs. And you're not ready to do that yet. You're a new dom and you're new to this relationship. Even if you were an experienced dom, you'd need to learn what he needs. Put in different terms, he wants to play in the deep end of the pool, and you're still learning the dogpaddle. So you need to find ways to get him to tell you what he wants and doesn't want.
So how's this? Order him to keep a journal. He needs to write at least 250 words a day (that's about a page, double-spaced). In that journal, he needs to describe his reactions to what you do, his fantasies, and other thoughts that occur to him about his new-found inferior status. He must write out at least three fantasies a week. You have the right to read that journal whenever you want.
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