I am new here so I would like to say Hello to everyone to begin with. Now, Im posting bc I really need some help. I have read alot of info on the internet and I have read alot of things on your forum as well. I just need actual people's advice. My bf recently told me that he is into BDSM. He likes to be dominated. Thats fine with me and I actually like the idea of dominating him however, I cant seem to please him with this even when it I give it everything I have. We have only tried this a few times and we are not going to be doing it 24/7. I still feel shy about some of the things such as dressing up and also "punishing" him. I feel like he expected me to just dive right in and become an expert at this overnight and to say the least that has not happened. So what am I asking for really is some advice on how to loosen up and fulfill his needs to be my slave. How can I show him that I am for real about this and not just doing it for his pleasure only? Any suggestions would be great and if you need any more info I can give you that too. Thanks alot!!!