So, my story is kinda weird, I guess. Me and my fucktoy started out in a rather vanilla relationship, and we both just sorta found out about our bdsm fetish while we were with each other - she told me she liked cuffs, I told her I liked owning her, and it all just sorta came in place. We didnt even know there was a term for what we did until like a week ago. Or, rather, we didnt think that term applied to us. But anyways, my point is, we like D/s and bondage, with just a tinge of humiliation - but most of what we do, is pretty gentle. So I was wondering if any of yall had any suggestions or ideas for a pair of newbies to try out that arent too extreme or anything? Id be very appreciative for your input.