For max pain, how long should one wait between strokes?

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by YourRhythmStickl, Nov 2, 2010.

  1. YourRhythmStickl

    YourRhythmStickl New Member

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    I'm guessing if you wait too long the sub will recover too much and get relief, but if you strike too fast the sub won't be able to fully appreciate the pain of each individual stroke?
  2. master jey

    master jey Moderator

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    5 seconds I think
  3. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

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    As your sub. Tell her that she needs to signal when the pain from one blow is beginning to fade. You can then learn how fast she processes the pain and teach yourself the timing. Also, remember that some types of pain play work differently than others. Caning has a sort of 'pain echo' that sets in a couple seconds after the initial blow.

    It's important to realize that you are not expected to be mind reader. Subs love that illusion, but it's unrealistic, at least not until you've been with a sub for a long time and know how they think.
  4. L8NightQ

    L8NightQ Member

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    What Seb said - but also remember that different areas react differently, so your timing and impact strength will be different on, say, the inner thigh vs the back, or breasts vs ass.
    Keep in mind that as you hit harder you MUST be more precise, the good areas are sometimes very close to the really bad ones (bottom of the ass vs between the legs for example). Be careful.

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