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The way I think about it is that it's like being gay. I can act relatively straight, keep from speaking about my gayness, and so on. I'm generally quite open about being gay, but there are some subjects I just can't discuss with most straights because it would shock them to hear that I've engaged in sex parties, gone to a bath house, and so on. So when I'm with other gay men, there's a comfort to knowing that I can talk openly about myself if I choose. (And, btw, while it's not PC to admit this, gay men really do talk about sex a lot and most have a good deal of it, because we can.)
BDSM is like that, only worse in some ways because it's less socially acceptable. I don't have to express my dominance around vanilla people, but it feels good to simply let my dominance hang out. I can hold back from calling a guy 'boy', but it's nice to simply be able to do that when I want to.
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