Well, we had a horrible session yesterday. I was feeling insecure and he was tired. I couldn't stop telling him what to do (because I was nervous about a new toy) and he got mad and ended the session really abruptly. He released me and then stormed out of the room. I was really upset. :crying: We have talked about it, and everything is fine - we had vanilla sex later in the day as a way of reconnecting and had a talk about what happened. But, I hate to end the weekend on such a bad note (since we live apart Monday to Friday). Is this common? To have bad sessions that leave both of you feeling like crap (emotionally)? Did this put a damper on future sessions - and, if so, how did you get your groove back?