advice????

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by fairystail, Oct 9, 2012.

  1. fairystail

    fairystail New Member


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    hi im kindof new to the bdsm scene but from some experimentation i believe i am a switch and id like to explore both parts of that and i was just wondering if there was any advice anyone could give?
     
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  2. sebastian

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    Have you read the Newcomer's FAQ? It has a lot of information that new kinksters should know and think about.
     
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  3. Smallest

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    As Sebastian said, you should read the FAQ. Other than that, I'd love to give you advice but this is so open I wouldn't know where to start.
     
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  4. fairystail

    fairystail New Member


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    thanks guess i should have done that first
     
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  5. Smallest

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    No problem! Be sure to come ask what you mean to after.
     
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  6. AJMarion

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    Joining Fetlife and checking out some of the forums there is always a good idea. I'm sure you'll be able to find several for switches. You might also try searching out forums for groups in your local area. It's possible that there are munches or events you could attend to meet and discuss with others face to face. Good luck and enjoy!
     
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  7. Lillith

    Lillith New Member


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    Jump right in and find subs and dommes to talk to. Experience is the best teacher and most of us kinksters are fast learners.

    We tend to learn by doing.

    ;)
     
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  8. DepravedSadist

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    To give proper advice to someone in your situation, I think you'll need to be more specific. But, as far as general advice, I'd say take a conservative approach to the lifestyle at first, be cautious of people online calling themselves Masters or Doms & keep self-preservation as your highest law. Then & only then will you get the full experience, ten-fold.
     

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