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Does anyone have any idea's on what I could make my slave do,(I'm kinda new to this)?
Write a little something, a mantra, for her to recite every morning and/or evening. Subspace LOVES her coffee, so she can't have coffee in the morning until the mantra is recited out loud, for example.
Come up with a list of things that must be done, daily ones, weekly ones and monthly ones. Subspace and I do this and the results have been very interesting and rewarding. Webcam, if possible for you, is wonderful and My Girl and I talk on the phone every day. Emails, phone calls and Instant messages on pre-determined times and days are good and if forgotten, provide an oportunity for disciplines and chastisements. For example, My Girl missed the due date for her monthly 1000 word essay. There will be hairbrush strokes for that. The grace period for completion allowed her and extension of 5 days, after that deadline, the stakes go up...
Agree upon disciplines and punishments in advance and list them.
Talk, a LOT. Subspace came up with her own list of disciplines when told to do so and with only a couple of minor tweaks I found them very workable.
One thing though, all this requires Complete Honesty. Subspace is one of the most honest and thoughtful people I have ever known. I'm very proud and honored to be her Dom. when we met, I really didn't think an online/long distance D/s relationship could work at all, much less be truely satisfying.
I was mistaken on both counts.
Good Luck!!
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