Swapping gender roles in the bedroom...

odd1 · Jan 21, 2010

Hi everyone, new to the forum... Joined for a little help....

I am a 24yo male and just wondered if there any girls out there who are into dressing lads as girls then having like a lesbian night in the bedroom?

I am far from gay but the thought of being dressed in platform heels, stockings, skirt etc... then getting taken doggie by a good looking girl with a strap on or toy really takes my fancy

(If any of my mates could see what I am wrighting this now they would dis own me lol)

But I guess this is the place to find out if there are girls out there who's fantasy is to do that to a male? If there is how do you go about finding them? It's not the sort of thing you can just chat about with a stranger in a pub

Thank you

Obedient Little Puppy · Jan 21, 2010

Hi Odd1, I started a thread about this some time ago; I was particularly interested in the reverse, girls dressing as boys, but in this thread you will find a fair bit of discussion from some guys here who like to dress in female clothing...

http://www.smplace.com/forum/2596-gender-bending.html

EZRA · Jan 21, 2010

Your not as odd as you think.

about half of the CD's are strait.
I enjoy being fucked by my Mistress alot and she was surprised by how much she enjoys it.
We have a very nice toy for said purpose, Made by an outfit called " Fun factory" it's called "share" and it has a specialy shaped end designed to fit into the vagina.
Whats really cool about it is the girls gets as much out of it as you do and it dosent require any straps, but we have found it works better if she is wearing pantys over it.
and it has a very natural "action" and appearance.

As for girls who like this ,I think your going to find they tend to be Dominate, and a bit aggressive.
It's way easier to talk to girls about this than guys.
Try and be subtle and establish that she is in to kinkiness to begin with once you now she is kinky introducing the subject gets a lot easier, because she will already be open minded about such things.
Don't make it a "have to", tease and joke at first untill you get a picture of how she'll react to it.
You might also go to some trouble to establish firmly ,your not gay and you want a girl to do this and not a guy. No one likes to feel like a substitute.
And if you havent already, start to "anal train" your self.
A shower wand and various sizes of but plugs are helpful.(enemas are also a good thing for obvious reasons)
And when you do find a girl who's into it, be patient and easy going with her.
(helps alot if she is into being ass fucked as well because she'll understand how to do it )

Good luck!

Here in the states there is always Craicslist to help find people of like mind about these things but you have to be carefull.

odd1 · Jan 22, 2010

Cheers!

Thats perfect ppl!

I will see how it goes, I have never really had trouble pulling girls etc... (looks arent everything

) I just think I am bored doing stuff to them, I want a turn

When I watch a lesbian porn shoot I always think the girl taking it has well more fun than what I get doing a girl...

Is there any partys for ppl that are into this sort of stuff?

I have to watch what I say here, I tried cocaine a while back (2 years ago) and it brought out a real "girly/wanting it in the arse side" is there a reason for this?

I don't do drugs due to a professional job these days but is there anything legal that might bring out the same side?

It's the first time I have ever spoke about anything like this, just thought I might be able to find some answers.

Thank you

EZRA · Jan 22, 2010

A good dominate Female can put you in the right space.
trust me on this, you don't need or want any sort of drug legal or other wise.
They just detract from the experiance by either making you numb or out of it.

Plus you'll miss out on the "prostrate orgasm" hehe let you find out for your self.

Yes well I think girls have most of the fun anyway, but thats just me.

ReallyGreen · Jan 22, 2010

odd1 said:
I have to watch what I say here, I tried cocaine a while back (2 years ago) and it brought out a real "girly/wanting it in the arse side" is there a reason for this?

Drugs and alcohol are well-know inhibition removers. Cocaine itself doesn't magically make you desire anal play, it simply decreases many of the psychological barriers that normally prevent you from coming-out and saying "You know what? I really want to get f*cked by a woman right now!" on any given tuesday.

I don't do drugs due to a professional job these days but is there anything legal that might bring out the same side?

Shot of Irish courage won't hurt. Just be sure to stop before whiskey dick sets in.

It's the first time I have ever spoke about anything like this, just thought I might be able to find some answers.

Thank you

You're welcome. Now go have fun and enjoy yourself.

master jey · Jan 22, 2010

I don't do drugs due to a professional job these days but is there anything legal that might bring out the same side?

lots of ketonal,vicodin,anti cold mixtures,weed,tabex then cigarettes,alcohol in vein,glue in packet then sniffing it and e.t.c and e.t.c...
but cox is still best
yes and alcohol enemas!
and don't ask why i know this stuff XD

It's the first time I have ever spoke about anything like this,

it's ok we're from the internet we are on your side and yes bdsm itself is illegal

ReallyGreen · Jan 22, 2010

Some aspects of BDSM culture are illegal in certain places. In most countries governments have a healthy respect for privacy of what go's on behind closed doors among legal adults. And unless police are specifically called or somebody winds-up in the emergency room the authorities will normally take a 'don't ask, don't tell' policy (Does not apply if you are a registered sex offender or a homosexual in the middle east). Generally you can get naked and have as much kinky sex with other adults as pleases you so long as nobody gets hurt and you aren't hosting orgies at your Kansas meth-lab double wide.

Mostly the S&M aspect of it is the only legal grey area. A good lawyer and testimony from a licensed therapist/psychologist familiar with your particular case will go a long way in getting domestic abuse cases dropped by the judge (In New York state at least there is no "not pressing charges" in abuse cases, the officer is required to arrest and bring the case to a judge. And unless the judge has something against you a reasonable defense will get the case dropped). Of course arriving at the ER with a cucumber the Dom lost in the Sub's ass is very different from the sub needing treatment because the Dom put a cigarette-out on the sub's eyeball. (Common sense people)

EDIT: This is inspired by personal history. If you're young enough to still be in high-school when you shower in gym-class anything worse than scratches down your back are going to cause questioning. In my case Debbie "The vampire" left a half-dozen 'bite bruise over razor-blade cut' marks on my chest sophomore year. I still recall that cold January day fondly (the sex day, not the snoopy gym day).

ReallyGreen · Jan 22, 2010

PS: Put two self-cutting 15 year olds in a bedroom and what did you think would happen?

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