need alittle help

tat283 · Jan 27, 2011

ive been very interested and been in the bdsm lifestyle for awhile, ive meet i great woman and want her to do bad things to me. lol but she is unfamillar with the lifestyle and i dont really know how to... bring her into the lifestyle and dont know if she will like it or not. ive talked to her about my fanitisy and dont really know how to take it a step farther.. any help out there?

sillylittlepet · Jan 27, 2011

read the newcomers faq

sebastian · Jan 27, 2011

Start with Control. Let her know that you will do anything she wants sexually. She gets what she wants sexually when she wants it in whatever way she wants it. If she enjoys the prospect of having total control sexually, then discuss other spheres of play. If she doesn't enjoy control, it will be harder to get her into bdsm, although she might agree to do some things because you like it.

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