need alittle help

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by tat283, Jan 27, 2011.

  1. tat283

    tat283 New Member

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    ive been very interested and been in the bdsm lifestyle for awhile, ive meet i great woman and want her to do bad things to me. lol but she is unfamillar with the lifestyle and i dont really know how to... bring her into the lifestyle and dont know if she will like it or not. ive talked to her about my fanitisy and dont really know how to take it a step farther.. any help out there?
  2. sillylittlepet

    sillylittlepet Active Member

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    read the newcomers faq
  3. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

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    Start with Control. Let her know that you will do anything she wants sexually. She gets what she wants sexually when she wants it in whatever way she wants it. If she enjoys the prospect of having total control sexually, then discuss other spheres of play. If she doesn't enjoy control, it will be harder to get her into bdsm, although she might agree to do some things because you like it.

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