The past 6 months have been a SERIOUS re-awakening and wake-up call to me about making sure I am getting what I need and about getting re-involved in things that make me more stable and content, regardless of what the outside world views as "stable" and "content." I had actually thrown the entirety of bdsm out the window with a relationship that ended a long time ago and had been feeling extremely dead inside until recently. I want to mark myself so that I remember this. However, I don't know what to use as the mark. Whatever it is, I will be doing it myself. Suggestions?