Keeping her head from moving

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by Nun slaughter, Feb 25, 2013.

  1. Nun slaughter

    Nun slaughter New Member

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    Hey guys, first post. I've done some searching but can't find any sort of ring gag or ball gag that has d ring hooks or something on it so a can keep my girl friends head from turning from side to side.

    Basically when I lay her on her back and strap her limbs down so I can do what I want to her while making her watch porn, she keeps turning to look at me. I have to stop what I'm doing to tell her to look at the tv or put my hand on the side of her face to hold her head to the side. It's a pain in my ass and very distracting to me. So I'd just like to be able to strap her head to the side or something. Anyone know how I can do this?
  2. sebastian

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    You probably need a hood or muzzle that has rings or anchor points that you can tie off. However, keep in mind that if you're gagging her, and fully immobilizing her body, one of the few ways she can safe-word is by shaking her head vigorously. If you immobilize her head as well, you need to figure out something else that she can do to signify that she wants the play to stop. Perhaps give her a safe toy to hold--dropping it signifies safewording.
  3. Nun slaughter

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    Yeah I was looking for some sort of ring gag with tie off points... I may have to make one. And I'm not rough with her besides light spanking and I won't be doing that when she is on her back.

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    Safe words aren't only to stop a pain activity like a spanking. If she has a cramp in her leg, one of her bonds is chafing, or perhaps she feels queasy then she needs to be able to signal it.

    Even something as trivial as an itchy nose can distract from the enjoyment of bondage. I know that sounds silly - that a sub could enjoy a spanking, but hate not being able to scratch their nose - but it's certainly true for me.

    A safe toy is one idea, and I would add to Sebastian's comment by suggesting you use a doggie toy that squeaks. If you're doing something else, then you may not notice her dropping the toy. But a loud squeak is as good as a safe word. If she happens to drop the doggie toy anyway then that should be interpreted as a safe signal too.

    Make the toy part of the game - buy a couple of squeaky doggie bones so she's now holding one in each hand. Tell her to imagine they are the dicks of the two guys who are coming to come and work her over later.
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    No matter what you are doing she needs to be able to safeword. It's a submissive's right to do so and no proper master should ever take that away.
  6. PunishKatt

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    What you need is a set of "nose hooks" or a "Pig Nose" I think its called. Just hook um in & pull tight over her head. Tie them off to the back of the chair.... You can use any small/blunt hooks and some hemp rope, Google Image search "BDSM Nose Hooks xxx" for more ideas.

    Relatively painless but uncomfortable and extremely humiliating especially if you pull tight. A few times with this and the humiliation alone might teach her to keep her eyes/head where it's put....


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