How to find a 24/7 mistress

Discussion in 'General fetish discussions' started by tnsub, Dec 3, 2011.

  1. tnsub

    tnsub New Member

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    How do I go about finding a 24/7 arrangement? I am ready to give myself up completely and am ready to find a serious long term 24/7 dominant to own me. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
  2. Smallest

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    Look online (collarme etc), or at your local meetings. And do make sure you get along more than you wanting to be a sub and her wanting one.

    Someone else will have better suggestions, but it's pretty much the same as looking for any other long-time partner, except you want to make sure they're into 24/7Fdomme first.
  3. castro912

    castro912 Member

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    yes, internet will be your great source

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    I found my wife/Mistress online in a non-BDSM forum. We clicked immediately when we spoke on the phone, and after we talked a few times I told her about how I was kinky and she was all for it!

    My advice is find someone you click with, then gently let them know about your interests in a broad sense. If they can't accept this part of you then you can move on and nobody's feelings are hurt because you were honest with her from the beginning. I've made the mistake of waiting to tell in the past and it only leads to heartbreak and disappointment on both sides if you're both not on the same page. is an option too as Smallest said. I think the main thing that made me not pursue a serious relationship through a BDSM site was that I had little in common on a personal level with anybody I talked to who was seriously into it.

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