I've been on the lookout for a good bdsm-themed internet forum for some time now, but it's surprisingly hard to find. I want a place where I can engage in serious discussion about all factors of the vast bdsm-world, but there seems to be an awful lot of people who post three or four messages, or simply just post a personal ad and then disappear. Are there serious regulars out there too who can tell me about the goings on of this place? Cause I'd love to stay and talk if there's interesting stuff going on here. And besides, a personal ad might not be a bad idea, haha.