The sudden explosion of ads on this site has gotten me thinking about a really common problem that gay men encounter when dealing with supposedly pansexual events and sites. In theory, pansexual stuff like this site is supposed to be equally accepting of all genders and sexual orientations. But actually, they're hostile to gay men, because none of the imagery in the ads is aimed at gay men. Every single ad here is shows submissive women, which means the site is primarily aimed at dominant straight men and bi/bi-curious women. There are no tied up guys, no leather daddies, no submissive guys at all. Which makes it clear that gay men aren't actually welcome here. This makes me sad, because for five years this site has been a home for me. And now it is rapidly feeling like a hostile environment because I can't get away from the endless parade of tits.