PORN

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by subarama30, Sep 2, 2011.

  1. subarama30

    subarama30 Member


    Click here for more.
    Just thinking out loud really but I find myself totally unimpressed by the porn out there these days. There is so much of it but you have to wade through tons of crap.

    Maybe it's just me but they are either WAY too extreme and just plain gross to me. Or they are tame and more like vanilla sex but just coz the guy put his hand on your neck for 2 milliseconds its called 'rough' or she has her hands tied so it's bondage er no it's not, it's regular sex with a pair of cuffs on! I don't get it?!

    I wanted to find something I could show my partner nor necessarily as a how-to film but more sort of 'this is hot to me' but I've been looking for days and am thoroughly disappointed. I think maybe it's because I am female? As most seemed aimed at men. There seems to be an obsession with choking women in dicks lol

    Oh well my search continues....
     
    Free LIFE TIME Keep2Share Premium
  2. Smallest

    Smallest Moderator


    Click here for more.
    I know. My Master wanted to see what kind of porn I watch, and it was like 'it takes me so long to find a short piece I like that I don't even bother anymore'.

    I know this is to show your partner, so the suggestion is null, but the best idea would be to film yourself/ves and make better porn.
     
    Free LIFE TIME Keep2Share Premium
  3. master jey

    master jey Moderator


    Click here for more.
    You just need to look better
     
    Free LIFE TIME Keep2Share Premium
  4. Smallest

    Smallest Moderator


    Click here for more.
    But it's not worth the effort it take to find one or two things I like. Maybe we're just picky.
     
    Free LIFE TIME Keep2Share Premium
  5. subarama30

    subarama30 Member


    Click here for more.
    Yes we are totally too picky Smallest ;)
     
    Free LIFE TIME Keep2Share Premium
  6. sillylittlepet

    sillylittlepet Active Member


    Click here for more.
    When I asked my master about porn, he said EXACTLY the same things!

    I'm usually happy so long as the girl is pretty and I either don't see the guy very often or he's reasonable too. A lot of the BDSM stuff is reeeeeeeally crazy so if thats what I'm in the mood to watch I take a awhile to find the right videos, but I if I'm watching porn I usually like to watch a lot anyways to taking time doesnt really bother me

    I pretty much just use porn to get things going (when I'm alone)

    EDIT: yeah you guys are picky XD
     
    Free LIFE TIME Keep2Share Premium
  7. Smallest

    Smallest Moderator


    Click here for more.
    If it's too commercial/fake I don't like it, if the girl reminds me of someone I don't like it, if the video quality's to bad I don't like it,if I can't even see the chick or it's just closeup of cock in whereever I don't care for it, and so on.

    And I agree with both you and subarama, BDSM porn is either mislabelled 'oho he put his hand on her neck' or super extreme usually also PVC type stuff.

    OTHERWISE, I agree that as long as the chick's hot and the guy's okay sure.
     
    Free LIFE TIME Keep2Share Premium
  8. bakerboy

    bakerboy Member

    Free LIFE TIME Keep2Share Premium
  9. bakerboy

    bakerboy Member


    Click here for more.
    Subarama gone AWOL? :)
     
    Free LIFE TIME Keep2Share Premium
  10. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member


    Click here for more.
    Given that every person's kinks and turn-ons are different, it's pretty much guaranteed that a large percentage of the available porn is going to leave any given person cold. Remember that one person's turn on is another person's turn off. Some of the stuff that turns me on will definitely bore or gross out someone else. For example, I find twinks (young, skinny guys) a turn off. They don't arouse me at all. But lots of guys love the twink look and think that my muscle boys are too pumped. Some guys like really heavy-set women, and some like stick-thin supermodels.

    So it's not that most porn is bad; it's that most porn is bad for you (whoever you are), because it wasn't made with your specific kinks in mind.
     
    Free LIFE TIME Keep2Share Premium
  11. Smallest

    Smallest Moderator


    Click here for more.
    But most of use are being vague enough that we can be happy complaining together even if we have varying ideas :)
     
    Free LIFE TIME Keep2Share Premium
  12. bakerboy

    bakerboy Member


    Click here for more.
    Search no more: :cool:

    http://www.smplace.com/preview?/videogal.php
     
    Free LIFE TIME Keep2Share Premium
  13. Smallest

    Smallest Moderator


    Click here for more.
    Bakerboy, do you work for boundheat or are you just that stoked on them?
     
    Free LIFE TIME Keep2Share Premium
  14. bakerboy

    bakerboy Member


    Click here for more.
    I have answered this question in the past . I am a huge fan for years of this S&M style erotica and am an unpaid affiliate of the site. WIP and DIDs films are not made today any more. If I find another source I will be posting about it even more. Unfortunately there is NOT one. .... and so it goes
     

Share This Page