I am looking for a female who simply enjoys the BDSM scene without the need to be a "slave" - except during playtime. Life and the overall enjoyment of living is waaaay too important to expend energy with what I consider to be an antique lifestyle.
I am a very easy going top with a healthy streak of Dom... and that notion of being a "Master" to my slave is far from what I enjoy. "Playing" and the sensuality of the processes of bondage and flogging are what I love and have enjoyed for many years. I do have both equipment and experience - as well as "in the scene" references if you should so need....
I probably should get this information clarified right away: About a year ago my girlfriend, who was a partner in an "open marriage", and I had a "parting of the ways", and I really do need a BDSM playmate in my life. I am open to most kinds of heterosexual relationships and I am happiest in a fairly dedicated pairing. The word marriage slips in and out my conscious mind as I say this - ooooh, that is a confusing issue!
Probably the only requirement that I have, other than that we should "click", is that you be more on the slim side.... A playmate is just perfect, to begin with, and if it should grow into a top/bottom or possibly into master slave relationship, that' could be OK too!
I have been playing for more years than I would like to remember, with girlfriends, wives, and acquaintances - and loving it! Sometimes I crossdress as a Domme, and do that very well, as I am told - most of my friends seem to enjoy my masquerade! An example would be that I top my female submissive at a party or outing... and when we arrive home, she gets to do the topping in a sexual sense. That makes sure that she gets as much sensuality of the type and duration she desires.
I am not rich, but quite secure in my retirement, and am open for travel, and just all kinds of options... altho I am indeed hetero!
Richard.... pics and stuff at links below:
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