Hello, Obviously I'm new here. My wife and I have gotten into BDSM. I have been trying to preform forced orgasms on her for a few weeks with little success. She normally resorts to using her safe word which I always respect because she can not take the immense pleasure. I have not been able to reach her to orgasm with the wand although other toys with less vibration work but that is more in the lines of vanilla sex than me dominating her. I want to be able to force her into multiple intense orgasm's with a wand type massager and get her to the point she can take the intensity of the scene. She is ok with trying this but we never make it.....lol. Last night I was able to kinda play this scene out as I used a rabbit vibrator on her while pinching around her clit and holding it up while letting the rabbit vibrate her clit. She had 2 orgasm's this way however after each orgasm I had to totaly stop any and all play in that area for about 5 minutes because the sensation was too much for her. She also said the orgasm's were much differnt than a normal one for her and there was kind of a burning sensation. She liked the orgasm's so all was well there but I was wondering if anyone could offer some insight on how to I guess work into a more intense wand and to properly administer the forced orgasm. There isn't a whole lot out there other than porn to learn from and I joined here hoping for advice!