Recent content by Tie-guy

Straight male dom FYI. Would you say that mainstream sites are safer bets for the type of long term relationship I want? The BDSM sites seem to be dominated by no-strings subs. As long as I communicate with my partner, bringing up my fantasies shouldn't be too much of an issue.

I've been getting more comfortable with the BDSM community recently but as I'm still a newbie, I need to get the lowdown on experimenting with BDSM partners. I'm into roleplay during sex, but outside of sex, I'm completely vanilla. I don't want to waste time joining BDSM specific websites...

Anyone here also interested in this type of roleplay? Got any interesting stories to share?

I'm rather boring, I like the good ol' ineffective cleave gag with the more effective stuffing. Other types of gags i.e. tape and ball don't do it for me. I'm also a fan of panty gagging but I've only done that a few time to a previous partner.

I'm a Nicholson fan, I usually whisper "Here's Johnny!" as sad as it is. During my roleplay I like to be on equal terms with my partner. Or have her start as a typically dominant female role that I slowly destroy to establish myself as top dog. One I have thought about is my partner playing...

The intruder scenario is really appealing! For me, it's about the exchange of power. The bondage stripping them of movement, the gagging stripping them of their communication, the lack of consent uses their own body against them. Outside of resistance play, the exchange of power is quick but...

Anyone into this in particular? The idea of consensual "forced sex" really turns me on. Although, I wouldn't ever consider doing this with someone who wasn't fully on board. People who "let" their partners perform BDSM with little understanding of the psychology end up hurt or freaked out...

Since beginning a relationship with a new partner, I don't know how to be open about a deep part of my sexuality. I've never started "the" conversation, it's always been my partner that asks me. It's that first instance I have trouble opening it up, I open up slowly naturally, but scratching the...

Just wondering, of those who are in a relationship on this board, how many of you met in the context of the BDSM community? How many introduced aspects of BDSM into their relationships with a vanilla partner?

Seems to me that it's more trouble than its worth. Guess a knotted cleave gag will muffle the voice better while keeping the nice aesthetics. Then again, I find gag talk quite arousing.

When was the first time you engaged with BDSM and realised you liked it? My first was reading a comic at the age of 13/14 with a very attractive princess being bound, gagged and fed to a dragon. Of course, she was saved by the hero in the nick of time. Cliche I know... :p

Anyone got any tips concerning stuff gagging? Any special rules I should follow if I secure it with a cleave/tape?

Yeah, tacky dress up is not for me. Normal clothes, or at least authentic uniforms if it has to be. I have my preferences, but if you can't be seen in public wearing it, then it loses all the RP value I look for when fulfilling my fantasies.

I like scarf bondage, cleave gags and roleplay. I like women dressed professionally in suits and smart clothes, really turned on by tight blouses that can be ripped open at a moments notice. My ultimate turn on is submission, women that plead through their gags (if they are not stuffed ;) )...