Resistance Play

Discussion in 'General fetish discussions' started by Tie-guy, Jan 5, 2011.

  1. Tie-guy

    Tie-guy New Member

    Anyone into this in particular?

    The idea of consensual "forced sex" really turns me on. Although, I wouldn't ever consider doing this with someone who wasn't fully on board. People who "let" their partners perform BDSM with little understanding of the psychology end up hurt or freaked out. At the end of the day I see my kink as an aspect of my sexuality not the definition of it.
  2. sillylittlepet

    sillylittlepet Active Member


    also, its the best but kind of hard for me and my master to pull off
  3. Mordred

    Mordred New Member

    Me and my master are in to this. We actually call Friday night 'Rape Night' because a couple of weeks in a row thats what ended up happening lol.

    Sillylittlepet, why do you guys have trouble?
  4. Infinia

    Infinia Member

    I've always fantasised about it but it's hard sometimes. Mistress usually gets to worried about me or hurting me to much.
    She did do a rape fantasy once just burst into our house coming home on her lunch brake god that was awesome i still have wonderfull dreams about that day.

    but she's never done it again so if anyone here figueres out a way to help it a bit i'd like to hear it aswel.
  5. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    Rape play is pretty common, at least in fantasy. You can easily build a scene involving a fake weapon (don't use a real one; that's just asking for trouble) and a ski mask or something similar. The sub has to submit or get 'killed'. Use lots of verbal play to build up the non-consensual illusion. If the dom is stronger than the sub, it's not too hard to make the scene a little more violent.
  6. Tie-guy

    Tie-guy New Member

    The intruder scenario is really appealing!

    For me, it's about the exchange of power. The bondage stripping them of movement, the gagging stripping them of their communication, the lack of consent uses their own body against them. Outside of resistance play, the exchange of power is quick but within a resistance setting it becomes slower and, for me, more pleasurable.
  7. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    Lots of ways to stage it. You could just wake your sub up in the middle of the night as a 'burglar' and rape her. Or grab her as she gets home. You might want to use a code phrase that tells her it's you and not a real rapist (something like "stop fighting, bitch, and no one gets hurt" or something else specific enough that a real rapist is unlikely to use that exact phrase).
  8. Tie-guy

    Tie-guy New Member

    I'm a Nicholson fan, I usually whisper "Here's Johnny!" as sad as it is.

    During my roleplay I like to be on equal terms with my partner. Or have her start as a typically dominant female role that I slowly destroy to establish myself as top dog. One I have thought about is my partner playing the part of a feminist or female professional.

    I prefer the disrupted burglar rather than having the immediate advantage of my "victim" being sleepy. What can I say, I'm a freak ;)
  9. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    I have a buddy who really likes scenes where he starts out in control and then loses control and is broken down and humiliated, insulted, and so on.
  10. Demotep

    Demotep New Member

    I am into resistance, though I really only go as far as just being held down or pinned down. Of course it is totally consensual, however the idea of not being able to stop it even if I did want to is thrilling.
  11. Topsbottom

    Topsbottom New Member

    Lately I have been having a kidnap fantasy with a lot of Stockholm syndrome. I don’t know HOW it would work. I just keep thinking stalker, kidnap, earn my trust…submit. This fantasy might take a couple of days but it would be soooo worth it.

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