Inexperienced Dom Seeking Mentor

Discussion in 'BDSM and Fetish personals' started by inzidec, Apr 30, 2014.

  1. inzidec

    inzidec New Member

    Hi,

    I'm relatively new to BDSM. My wife and I have been doing it for about a year, different things, mostly in bed. We want to turn it into a 24/7 lifestyle and make it work long term. I've been reading a lot and I have many ideas on how to start, but I need some help. I need some guidance. I think I just need someone to talk to and discuss everything with, who has the experience and can tell me if the direction is right or wrong.

    My wife is very complex though. She has been tought that sex is bad. Sex before me was extremely bad she says and I've gotten her into anal, cum-in-mouth, facials, swallowing, squirting and more. But she is still not comfortable in all of them yet. So this is one thing I am looking to teach her. To relax, to accept that it's okay to be a slut and enjoy kinky sex and not fight it subconciously.

    There are a couple of other issues I'd like to correct in her as well, but I'll explain them in private.

    This is serious and hope to get answers from serious people only.


    - Inzidec
     

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