Recent content by Tempestas somniorum

:D No problem! The author just has to remember to state that not all people who took the survey spoke Polish or were from Poland. . . In hindsight, it should probably also contain a "where are you from" field so that cultural differences can be taken into account when running statistical...

Translation for the survey: 1. Gender -Female -Male 2. Not really sure what Question 2 is asking, but I think it's if you're interested in relationships outside of BDSM. . ? Tak=Yes Nie=No Rzadko=Rarely 3. Are you a Dom/Sub person? -Dom -Sub -Switch 4. Please select 2 of the following that...

Well. . . Like I said, the machines would be a good alternative. You don't have to do the physical work of the machine - it'll do it for you. I've seen hand-held ones, mountable ones, ones built for dp and ones built for just simple penetration. And it's conceivable that they could be...

The first thing that popped into my mind was sex machines. O.o I know I'm SUPER new to this whole thing (haven't even done anything,) but in my research of everything I found sex machines. They look like they would require very little work to actually set up and the only thing you would have to...

He generally seems really good when it comes to safety issues. Hasty, yes. But he knows stuff. My only issue is explaining WHY the shibari he wants to do isn't doable. . . He just tells me that everything can seem extreme to someone who hasn't done it before. ._. Which is the same argument he...

Good to know I made the right call on most of it! ^^" Don't want to eat a whole pizza in one bite, you know? I must have mis-read or mis-construed on the face fucking part, then. . . And as for clubs, apparently there's plenty around a city just to our SE. Not saying I'm going to go and get on...

Ok, so. . . After my boyfriend and I had a long talk (as a few of you are aware) I had him list a few kinks that he was into. Below is a list of those things. . . He refuses to give me a "full" list because he thinks I veto'd too many of the things that he gave me, but I feel the ones I veto'd...

So we finally had a very long, exhausting conversation. A lot of what was said was written in the beginning, but I eventually managed to verbally communicate some stuffs. He's really excited and I'm happy that he's happy, even if I'm super nervous on the inside. X_X Thanks for your help, guys...

Maybe I shouldn't say boring specifically. . . But it seems to be lacking something. It's not trust, because I do trust him. It just seems like we're missing something. . . I don't think I could do what you suggest, sebastian. X_X It's too open and personal. What if he starts going on about...

^^" I blame my curiosity. Put anything in front of me that looks slightly interesting, and I /have/ to know. It's going to get me into trouble one of these days. . . Don't get me wrong - I'm a very opinionated person and I make clear my view points of every subject we talk about. Sex is an...

I apologize that it takes me so long to reply. . . I just want to think about what's said and I'm also slowly reading through the FAQ. :< (And it always takes me forever to type this stuff out.) Stanley_jeffries Yeah, I am feeling comfortable with him. He's a nice guy. :3 Very gentle and...

Lets say that I do listen to my curiosity and attempt to try this thing first-hand. What would be a good way for me to get started in BDSM? Obviously my boyfriend isn't adverse to the idea, but what are some simple, easy things to get my toes wet? (I've never been the kind of girl to jump into...

Sooo. . . This is going to be a decently lengthed post. I'm going to try and leave out unnecessary details and summarize as best as possible, but I've never been concise, let alone when I'm as confused and generally panicky as I am right now. . . For the longest time, and this is extremely...