Recent content by SubMumUK

As fun my ex girlfriend cuffed me to her bed for an hour but by the time she'd gotten back my arms had locked, my hands had no feeling and my wrists were in absolute agony. Because of that I prefer chains and rope.

I'm not American but I am thankful for finding this forum and my unborn son.

I despise the washing machine, I hand wash all my underwear, bedsheets and delicates as my washing machine seems to shrink everything.

what TV shows does everyone like? I love NCIS, Stargate Atlantis, Queer as Folk and Criminal Minds.

Dom and Sub friends wanted, fairly new so I would like friends who can teach me and ease me into the lifestyle. I'm gonna be a mum so I won't be able to answer straight away. please PM me first as I get really nervous messaging people.

I wish it snowed here, make the cold seem worthwhile, not just a pain in my arse. just a random topic but where does everyone come from?

I haven't been collared myself but I didn't wanna read and not reply. I think you could have a night when it's just you and her, no phones or anything, and put the collar on the table or a cushion then ask her take your collar. doesn't have to be overly romantic but have a night of symbolism...

thank you Sebastian, I'm hoping that meeting other Subs will give me the confidence to find the right Top for me. oh also I am a Stargate Atlantis freak! I love that show.

I'm pregnant, I've had 30 female sex partners, 5 male sex partners and only 2 people I've played the scene with. I have low self esteem and confidence issues stemming from my brothers suicide when I was 10 and bullying throughout school. I once slit my wrists and ended up in hospital. I find it...

people who walk all over me and expect me to still do EVERYTHING they ask

I was once propositioned by a top once but I told him I wanted to make friends with other subs, ease me into the lifestyle and help me figure out what I want, and he called me stupid so it's played on my mind for awhile now. I KNOW I'm a sub so it's not a case of finding that out.

I'm pregnant and I haven't been into the BDSM scene for a long time, only started a year ago so I was wondering if it's stupid that I want to become friends with subs before finding my own top?

I'm submissive, i'm gonna be a mum and I live in the UK

I'm 19 going on middle age already as I'm just about to have a baby.

when I played with my previous mistress it was 'giraffe' as she was scared of them and it instantly broke the mood. but if I said 'Dumbledore' she'd ask me what I needed and I'd tell her. some of the safe words made me giggle, such as Batman lol