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I managed to resolve this issue quite nicely. I bought a really cheap ring-gag harness and cut the ring off. So now we have a simple harness that buckles unde the chin, around the head and has a strap that goes over the head as well. So with that over the blindfold, no more slipping off. And I...

Hi, Though our household has shifted back to a much more 'standard' dynamic, my wife and I still enjoy a small amount of kink on occasion. But we have a bit of a difference of opinion with blindfolds. We have a total-enclosure hood that I love but she refuses to wear and a simple fabric...

Hi, I've sent a PM to MistressMaria and am awaiting a reply (if she's interested that is) but I figured there'd be no harm posting here also. Though I'm no longer in the lifestyle, my wife much preferring we live as equals, I have a great respect for those who are able to make it work...

I've had something similar to this with a simple ball-gag that strapped round the back of the head. Heck, I even got it with a bit-gag that fastened the same way. To alleviate the problem, get another one, but this time, get one of the harness style ones. That way you can loosen the strap...

I'm not very good at short messages, but for the sake of data collection, I'll try. 1. At what age did you discover BDSM? As early as six/seven years old, I was using things like sweaters and jumpers to try and tie myself up though I had no idea what any of it meant. It was only as I...

Hmm, okay. So the general concensus is that they work for some and not for others. I guess at £20 a pop it's not a terribly expensive mistake to make if it doesn't work... but then, is there a plan-c? Thanks for the input. S.

Hi, My wife and I reckon that it might be a good idea for me to wear a chastity device. I've done a fair bit of research and have noted the following facts:- 1) Waist belt designs offer unrivalled security 2) waist belt designs are shockingly expensive. Also, as a larger than...

Hi, Thanks for the replies. I spent a while the other night in the arms down position and it was glorius. I know some people spend large sections of their life like it and for them it probably isn't that great, but as far as I'm concerned I could do it every day. We have sufficient restrint...

I havn't been in them yet. So currently I have no feedback of my own. With a slightly busy schedule, I'm not sure whn I get to pilot them. I'm merely curious at the moment if one position is better for some reason or if the arms up position is a Hollywood fabrication to make restrained...

Hi,, I have a creepy feeling that the answers to this are going to lean towards 'personal preference' but I want to know what other people think since this is a new(ish) thing for me. In the past, being fixed ot the bed has always been a simple case of the padded leather cuffs being used...

How am I? That really depends. If you're just making chit-chat, then I'm fine, and thanks for asking. If you're genuinely curious, then life right now is pretty miserable while I find myself trapped in a marriage that becomes less desirable with each week that passes by, watching people...

Yup.

1st Choice. http://www.monkeydungeon.com/tan%20leather%20strap%20straight%20jacket.html It seems to have just about everything and looks like the real deal. Only problem is that it only has one crotch strap. Some guys might not be bothered by that though. 2nd choice...

Can't advise on that one I'm afraid but as someone who owns a straightjacket and spent a bit of time in it at some point, I figured I'd pitch my thoughts. For a start, you being in America is a good start. Finsing a British straightjacket retailer was a mission and the import fees that I...

I don;t have anything thawt compares to that, but I wouldn;t say I have it aprticularly easy. My mother is a disgustingly over-bearing, domineering, stubborn, know-it-all, no opinion other than her own counts, lazy, two-faced demon. Not a person you can sit down and talk to because she...