Recent content by Obsidian

Ok, this post may be deleted by admin but...I've found http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/ is much more active

I came accross this in a website somewhere (I'm not sure who the author is) but I thought it may be of interest. What are your thoughts on the points it raises?

I don't even have it in me to cry any more. I think (hope) this is the turning point and I can get him out of my life for good...again. I hope so, and as I said in my first post: I'm scarred that I won't be able to function in a healthy relationship because of this. It has really screwed me...

It's going to be hard, every time that I have put my foot down and said "a monogamous relationship or no relationship" he has wriggled his way out of it and convinced me to take him back. I know the pattern inside out and back to front. He'll ignore me for a month or two, pretending to be he...

Your Hotlanta Kink Test score was 560! 501 to 600 You are kinkier than most!

I know what you mean. Granted I've only been a member for 2 days, but I've seen more activity on cat-forums (no, I'm not a crazy cat lady. I'm not old enough and I don't have a cat yet) I'm not sure where they discuss things, but if you find out could you point me in the general direction...

Thank you for such a detailed reply and for welcoming me so warmly. Your words have given me a great deal of reasurence and I no longer as if I am being unfair with my demands. Un/fortunatly, it seems I needn't worry any more. I was told by a trusted friend that he had cheated on me (again)...

Hello everyone. I'm a 20 yr old sub from Suffolk, looking to chat with like-minded people. I'm fairly inexperienced as I've only been actively into the bdsm (D/s mainly) scene for the last 2 yrs and he only other person on the scene I know is my BF/Dom. I'm happy to answer any questions and...

I was probably about 7-8 when I first started having bdsm fantasies, (Rape, bondage and slavery) however I when I hit puberty and eventually having sexual relationships they were always vanilla until I turned 18 and met my first (and only) Dom.

I know this is a bit of a bad note to start on, but truth be told I'm genuinely concerned and the only other person in the scene I know is the cause of my concern. Now that I may have found some people who can truly point me in the right direction, I don’t know how to say it. The crux of...