Recent content by Doctor

Sebastian, I agree with you, but currently it sounds like this relationship is so new the sub is simply directing the dom to spank him. I'm suggesting at the minimum establishing some rules to at least give the appearance the dom is in control and/or start the process of getting control. What...

I don't think it would be abusive if it is truly consensual. Different things turn on different people for different reasons.

Looking for ideas for a variety of small tortures you can use while giving a massage...I have the idea of lightly using a rose stem or feather, ice, and some minor anal play. Looking for other ideas.

To me it sounds like you do not have a good set of rules established. If you are dom he does not "ask" for a spanking and you do not "give" him a bj. For instance establish a rule that if he does X then the consequence is a spanking. If he then actually wants a spanking he has the option to...

40 w/m switch interested in the concept if any fem switch is interested.

Just an observation - I enjoy the episode of Scrubs where the female lawyer (Nina?) makes JD her plaything and he gets spanked by Carla, then Jordan has to break up for JD with Nina at which point Jordan tells JD he is now her bitch. I wonder how the writers came up with the episode.

Hello, new to the forum. A bit of history...over the past 20 years I have always been a dom with the women I have been involved with. Primarily it has been administering spankings and light bondage. Very rarely, I could count on one hand, the female has taken charge generally at my coaxing...

New to the forum. Live in Vegas. 40 year old W/M 6'0, 180lbs, am interested in exploring/learning about both sides of a BDSM relationship.