Hello, new to the forum. A bit of history...over the past 20 years I have always been a dom with the women I have been involved with. Primarily it has been administering spankings and light bondage. Very rarely, I could count on one hand, the female has taken charge generally at my coaxing. Recently, I had an ex discuss how she now fantasizes about being in charge and making the man worship her (she is off the market). The thought appeals to me, but I'm not sure to what extent. Ideally, I would enjoy a relationship with shared power, but is that possible and if so, what is my best path?