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I highly recommend the Njoy medium. It is perfect for beginners.

Ill add just a few thoughts from personal experience. I have been incredibly lucky to have met the most wonderful people through the internet, we are talking life-long friendships here. However, until you get to that point it is very important to not lay all your cards onto the table just in...

This is interesting being that we are on the internet. For me, all of the friends I have made in the D/s world have started as internet friends. Whats so great is that I feel you get a chance to really get to know the person and connect on a level that is beyond physical. Also, for me a sub...

I was so surprised to see this thread pop up and even though I haven't posted in forever I do check in here and there. Just as an FYI, because his name was brought up and because some of us remember him, ill fill you in. Ezra had been dealing with what so many of have to - needing BDSM to be...

I feel the tug of the leash as my mouth takes you one last time deep into my throat. The pull at my neck lets me know that you are about to cum. The pull means I better stop worshiping your cock or there will be unpleasant consequences. It is so hard for me to leave your cock. One more pull...

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Go easy on yourself! Its only been nine weeks and you have been through so much! When my son was little (he is 11 now) my sex life was non-existent because once he went to bed I just needed a break. Its was hard for me to have a child hanging onto me all day and then have a husband on me at...

Sparrow!! I cant believe I missed all of this! I am so happy that you are on the road to recovery! I will definitely keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers! I've always said that the only good thing about being sick is getting good drugs and you sure proved that - lucky bastard...

My first visitor in seven months is spam?! Urg!!! Here is a new pic to continue on the theme:

I agree also. What I was trying to say is that lots of BDSM acts do not result in orgasm which I was referring to as sexual gratification, but this dosen't make them any less a part of the whole BDSM experience. I also confuse the two - masochism and self-harm - they overlap in several areas...

One of the great aspects of BDSM is that it dosen't have to involve sex to be a completely satisfying experience. You mention this in your original post and just because you don't get some sort of sexual gratification from the painful acts dosen't mean you are not a masochist. You get pleasure...

Please understand that the addiction to cutting starts for many reasons but continues because it provides something for you. I am glad that you stopped because it can be a viscous cycle and there in lies the danger from cutting because you end up needing more. May I ask: What does the pain...

I love it, but.... I dont think this sort of thing does much to help bdsm be better understood because it is such a fantastical view of it. If I were to see this in my younger days I dont think it would have necessarily opened my eyes to the lifestyle because it just dosent come off as reality...

I don't think the question is weather or not your son is attracted to you, it simply dosen't matter and should not come into play in your decision to involve him. I understand the idea of wanting to expose your son / teach him about bdsm from someone you trust but I think that as a mom you must...

I dont have a lot of hard limits but tickling is one of them - I cant watch it and just thinking about it makes me uneasy. Its sort of a weird limit but I wonder if that is common. I am also curious as to how she responded.