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    New to all of this. Help.

    You're great with advice! I can't thank you enough. I really like the command/request idea along with the whole"sir" thing, but the only problem I see with that is that when we're in public she likes to be rude and condescending towards me and I don't really know how to "punish" her for that...
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    New to all of this. Help.

    Yes we established "lighthouse" as our safeword... Also, what are some more creative ways to gain control. I just pull her hair and that works, but I mean its going to get old eventually. What are some other things I can do?
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    New to all of this. Help.

    Thanks. You were right. She's "bratty" and I just put that little bit more in. I pulled her hair a bit harder. I held her a little firmer. I did bite her too hard though and it ruined the moment. But thank you. You definitely made my weekend coming up much better.
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    New to all of this. Help.

    Yes, I have. I guess I forgot to include my biggest problem which is that she doesn't really cooperate with me when I try to be dominant. I can't tell if its because she wants me to work harder at it or if I'm doing it wrong or if she just doesn't want it. We talk about it and she says that its...
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    New to all of this. Help.

    So I've always been kinky and wanted to adventure into BDSM, but could never find a willing partner. My current girlfriend used to have a master until she joined the military. I figured now would be a perfect time to experiment and see if it's something I would enjoy. I have a few problems...
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