Recent content by Primrose

Gotcha, thanks! Also, an update - we just spoke, and he seemed really really receptive to the idea. I'm so relieved, and pretty damn excited! :) He even said that we'll need to go shopping when he gets back :D Thanks for everyone's advice. I'll keep you updated on what kind of turn this...

Eventually I really want to involve the harsh and rough stuff. Is it hard to transition from 50s to the rougher BDSM? The 1950s aspect of things doesn't really turn me on as much as the sexual aspect of things does, so I'll have to see how that feels. I want to build a household and marriage...

Thanks Smallest! I've been compiling my research and such all day. I feel like I'm getting ready to turn in my dissertation or something. I don't think I've ever been so nervous to talk to him about something.

I have but I was hoping for advice that was maybe a little less generalized, especially since my husband doesn't seem completely put off by BDSM.

I have an incredibly strong personality, and I can remember being a teenager and thinking how amazing it would be to let go of all inhibitions and let someone else take control in certain areas of my life. It was always something that I sort of experimented with when I was with boyfriends or...

Hi everyone! I've been lurking for quite some time, but this if my first time ever posting. My husband and I have been together 4 years, but we've only been married for about 3 months. Before he and I started dating my exBF and I used to practice some light BDSM (simple restraints...