Recent content by ickle_cat

i don't know you, but well done :) i know how hard it is to stck to writing something through to the end. good job on sticking through it all :D may scantily clad men/women of your preference rain down on you in large numbers! and may any enemies you have get mauled in the privates by...

i've never had any experience with D/s accross countries etc. it's a weird concept to me but whatever works for you. i've met up with a few people from online including my current dom/fioncee. i've thankfully never had any problems. when i met with my dom, we met at a pub in my home town...

yeah. if there was any scholarly research i'm sure i'd have found it by now! i've found one description in a paper, so it's not TOO bad. i'm more thinking of maybe a page on a website, or maybe one of those introduction to BDSM books having a section on subspace and what it feels like or...

i posted a while ago about wanting books that mentioned subspace. i've been reading different loving on someone's suggestion as a result of the thread, but i was wondering if anyone knew of any books or journals, newsletters, articles, basically anything published (even websites) that had a...

my dom made a suspension rig because he's into it in the house and to hide it's real use he has a shelving unit on one end. "ah, i need it to be this strong for my chainmail". he can't make changes to the flat so he made a shelving unit at one end, had some old ceiling beams across the top...

i just wanted to pick up on one other thing you said, it seems you're sorted about how to use your safewords but i saw that you said you sometimes have an act done that suddenly snaps you into a low. i don't think this is really really normal but i do get it myself. normally it's just a...

hello fellow fetishists! I'm hoping to do my final year project on D/s relationships and in particular subspace as a phenomenon. i need to do a project for my psychology degree so i'm researching as much as possible so i can do something i have interest in rather than seeing if people can...

my dom was looking to do this, he has experience in rope bondage and suspension and the sub he wants to do it on is experienced and heavily into pain. she was nervous about permanent damage to the breast tissue (ripped fibres etc.) and i posted a while back asking if anyone knew cases of this...

my dom and i are very into japanese rope bondage. he buys lengths of 20m nylon rope that's 6mm thick from a shop called the range and it costs about £6 a time. very soft, comes up a very bright white in pictures and looks great. hope that helps x

i can kinda understand your desire to receive pain. i'm in a d/s relationship at the moment and part of that is spanking, suspension, flogging, etc. so that's the sensation of a fairly understandable BDSM relationship. however, i remember for a long time before i was in the scene wanting to...

if it looks like the little dots around this love bite then it's broken capilliaries and will go witihn a week :) http://s3.hubimg.com/u/1608566_f260.jpg

yeah, this is the start of that research. if you have any idea where we can find information (books, websites, etc.) then that would be great if you could let me know. my dom is experienced in suspension on different types of women and very experienced with bondage in general, so we're working...

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO don't suspend by hands and legs! it's very hard and your sub needs a lot of training for it. a nice simple suspension is one where you make a chest harness and leg harness similar to those when rock-climbing then it's horizontal. if you haven't had any experience...

what's an lg?

what do you mean by that?