Recent content by hopefulsub

I was in the same spot. We went with a black choker and it was a bad idea lol he wanted discrete but wanted people to notice so it just ended up being something that stuck out and everyone asked me about. I like the idea of an anklet or bracelet.

We went to the same high school, started dating end of senior year. Went to different schools. See each other on weekends. We were each others "firsts". He had always had problems with sex, whether it was getting too tired physically to finish or the anxiety break down things. We took a break...

His father died from cancer when he was 12 but he says he's over that. He never had an emotional relationship til me, so I thought maybe he was messed up emotionally and now it's all coming out.

slp - have you had iced inserted in you? my friend told me he tied up his gf and put ice in her then fucked her. It sounded incredible but I feel like it could be damaging.

I have had my hands cuffed and connected to my collar with a carabiner. It immobilized me quite well. I don't know if it's just me, but it put my arms to sleep pretty quickly. My shoulders were bent too far and cut off circulation a bit. I would suggest trying the positions to see what is more...

I agree with slp. I think subs are at the mercy of their doms. For instance my master likes to tie me up and tease me with his dick, fuck my face, etc. You can use the belt to keep yourself from her and you'll be the reward. Also, exploring your submissive side can be erotic as well. I...

L8NightQ - He masturbates all the time. (We're 20 and engaged. Still in school, so we see each other only on weekends during the school year.) He doesn't have problems in that department. He always has morning wood. We started about a year and a half ago with sex. It was our first time. He was...

I know bdsm is more than that. He's just really turned off to being dominant unless sex is involved.

There are times where he is legitimately anxious and times where he, in his words, honestly felt fine and wasn't anxious and was ready to go then *poof*. Sometimes it's beforehand, or sometimes during. I tell him all the time that I don't need sex, and I love doing anything. He just gets...

Go clothes shopping, or grocery shopping. Any shopping with lots of bending. I've also gone to parties. The guys played baseball (just a home run derby type thing) and I ran around picking up the stray baseballs around the in field and such, bending a lot as I did so.

Anything extra, i.e. bdsm, puts him into the anxiety mood where he starts worrying about performing. That's why the bdsm part is involved. He's told me it stresses him out, and has even said sex in general is stressful. I thought being a sub would take away the anxiety, he'd have a toy and...

I know you guys have probably discussed something like this before, but my situation is a little different. I had a master, it ended. I'm now engaged to a different guy. I love him very much as I should :) The problem is he isn't in to BDSM, and in general our sex life isn't that great. We're...

it's basically we were really good friends. and i want to keep that part around, just not the master part.

I mean, I rarely hang out with him anyway. We rarely talked on the phone. It was a lot of texting and IMing. We saw each other a decent amount when we started being friends, but then I went to school so we don't see each other that much. I try to stop texting but he has always been my closest...

well my bf and I went on a break because some bad stuff was happening there. My best friend and I just kinda... well collided I guess. I have made some poor decisions, I'm not trying to defend myself. He was just really sweet, and we got into this and it was amazing. Then he stopped being so...