thanks for your advice its hlped alot i threw myself into the dominate roll and literaly knocked his socks off :) we had a chat about it and we are alot more happy well i am he allways was lol i dont worry anymore it has fallen into place good old fashion talking and me taking control
my b/f is very in to bdsm we have a box full of toys and i have really tried but alot of the time he has said i seem fake and it kinda take away from it
thing is we have loads of toys but most of the time i havent a clue what else to do im not into it but am happy to go with it i have...