Recent content by boyJay

The best lube that I have found for extended wear is called liquid silk. It's water based and works really well. The best plugs imho are the doc johnson there's something different about the silicone that doesn't seem to get as uncomfortable as the really slick shiny silicone plugs. Master does...

Thank you all for the advice, I really appreciate your help. I've found a few things that help 1) Is talking through it with Master. It helps me feel connected to him, even if it is only through text messages. I also have been listening to music that I know he likes. 2) Is chocolate. It seems...

I’d really appreciate any help anyone can give in dealing/coping with the emotional side subdrop. What coping mechanisms have you found useful? I know one that I have to do more of is talk to my Master. Any other suggestions are happily taken. More info: I’m still very inexperienced at...

I can speak from experience on this topic. I've been learning BDSM (through the very patient tutelage of my Master) for about a month. It's my first experience with it, so I can relate to the newness. I feel very priveldged that my Master has earned my trust, respect, adoration and worship. He...