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Hi all,
I am a middle-aged Caucasian man engaged to a beautiful Nigerian woman in her 30s. We have been exchanging letters for over three years now and I have met her on several occasions while I was over there on business trips. I am convinced our thing is true love.
Anyhow, I found out long ago that I had a strong Dominant side within me, but I kept it inside me during my past relationships. This time, as we became engaged, I wrote to her about my sexuality and my fantasies and asked her how she would feel about adopting a BDSM lifestyle. Her answer left me perplexed: to sum it up, she said something in the line of: "I don't think I would like it at first, but I will do it if it makes you happy and I will learn to enjoy it."
So here is my first question: is it at all possible for someone not into BDSM to "learn to enjoy" this lifestyle if she is willing to? I want to have a fulfilling sex life, but I also want my wife to be happy in that life.
I have a second concern. My fiancee comes from a very poor family. She has little education and has three children whom she has raised alone until now. She kept telling me how I was "her savior" and how grateful she was that I accepted to become the father to her children. Therefore, in addition to the D/s relationship, she will be financially and emotionally dependent of me. Is this multi-level dependence an issue in a D/s relationship?
Thanks in advance for your responses...
I am a middle-aged Caucasian man engaged to a beautiful Nigerian woman in her 30s. We have been exchanging letters for over three years now and I have met her on several occasions while I was over there on business trips. I am convinced our thing is true love.
Anyhow, I found out long ago that I had a strong Dominant side within me, but I kept it inside me during my past relationships. This time, as we became engaged, I wrote to her about my sexuality and my fantasies and asked her how she would feel about adopting a BDSM lifestyle. Her answer left me perplexed: to sum it up, she said something in the line of: "I don't think I would like it at first, but I will do it if it makes you happy and I will learn to enjoy it."
So here is my first question: is it at all possible for someone not into BDSM to "learn to enjoy" this lifestyle if she is willing to? I want to have a fulfilling sex life, but I also want my wife to be happy in that life.
I have a second concern. My fiancee comes from a very poor family. She has little education and has three children whom she has raised alone until now. She kept telling me how I was "her savior" and how grateful she was that I accepted to become the father to her children. Therefore, in addition to the D/s relationship, she will be financially and emotionally dependent of me. Is this multi-level dependence an issue in a D/s relationship?
Thanks in advance for your responses...
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