I really want my dom to do this to me. I had a past relationship where my dom did this and I loved it and found it to be incredibly erotic. I don't want the crap beat out of me with a belt, but I do want to be hit with a whip until welts form and I start to bleed. My dom/lover will not consent to this at all. He says there is no way he's hurting me beyond what we already do, and none of it involves leaving marks on my body at all (beyond a few bruises from intense spankings). Is there a way to convince him that this is safe as long as I agree to use my safeword if he goes too far? Should I just forget it? Is this something some subs like to have done to them? I might sound disturbed to some people (I hope not) but I have always loved watching scenes in movies where a person is whipped until they bleed as a form of torture. I would always imagine myself in that person's place and it was always such a turn on. I love my dom's whips and really want him to buy a "tougher" whip to beat me with until I bleed for him. I would also be willing to do knife play or general blood play with him if I can convince him that we can do it safely. I want to bleed for my man (safely). I find bleeding for a dom to be insanely hot. I hope I'm not alone with this. I've looked it up online, and most of what I find are doms using a sub's request to be beaten bloody an excuse to abuse them. If it is consensual (and the SUB is asking, dom refusing), I don't think it is abuse at all. At least, if it is, I like it.