MIRROR: Download from MEGA Click Here! So today I had to break up with a gal. She really did not 'get' my lifestyle choice as a submissive male. Hmmm, D/s is strange therefore Nairbrother is strange. I tried my best to explain it to her about it's not about sex(she kept thinking it was about sex), that I am fulfilled when a woman bosses me around. She was raised and grew up men running all over her and hurting her, so when I offered for her to take control of the relationship, she said I was a freak and there is no way she would do that and why would I want to serve her? There was a huge blowout and we broke up, for the better I believe. What do you do when you have a completely vanilla partner who won't even try nor think about D/s relationships?