Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by meripa, Nov 8, 2009.
In which age did you started with bdsm?
And with what stuff?
Been playing with bondage since about the age of 17, but only started experimenting with more full on BDSM since the beginning of this year.
I've liked it before I even knew what it was, but I met my Master at the age of 14.
I've had these sort of thoughts for a long time. There was this one situation though, that could be called my "start". There was this girl at school, when I was about 10, her brothers had taught her that kicking a boy on the balls was really painful. She joked to her friends about it and I heard them. I told her it wouldn't hurt me. She kneed me hard and I ended up on the floor. From that time, I asked her almost every other day to hit me there. One day a teacher saw her kicking my balls and started scolding her. The girl told her "but he wants me to".
It was awkward and I had a lot of "talks" about it about how wrong that was. Didn't work though, did it?
I am into this stuff since I've first seen it on porn movies, when I was about 16. I think it was kind of early though (most people here are older), but i feel confortable about it.
I have to say that I have been a dominant male for a long time, but as far as accepting a role as a Dom, that is a different story. I have always been attracted to strong and confident women, I never knew that it was because I desired their submission. I just recently entered my first D/s relationship. It has been the most fulfilling experience of my life.
15-16 simple experience crop and handcuffs
Always been into restraints and so on however I didn't open Pandora's Box untill about 3 years ago.
Since I was 14-15, my friend started me off slow. I haven't really gotten into the hard stuff yet.
I started in the age of 14
At first we started with handcuffs and such things but than we quickly went on to the harder stuff
Since I was pretty young. Then, in my late twenties, I was in a 4 yr.relationship with a girl who showed me a few things - clothespins, rubber bands, wax, ropes and the like. Always kept practicing, but I really didn't get "fascinated" and go crazy with some serious experimentation until a few years ago.
I had handcuffs on my bedposts at 14 (which seems to be about the age most people come into kink).
Became interested around 14-15 but didn't actually get to engage in any activity until I was 20. Now it's become a regular part of my life.
honestly i have been interested in these stuff since a short time but havnt yet got the chance to get started but i do hope to started soon
I've been dreaming about being a slave since I was a child, but I got first spanking when I was 17 (the age I become closer and closer to my Master). Now it's the best part of my life. I'm just sooo much happier with being dominated.
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