When did you know?

Exploring2dark · Sep 2, 2011

When I first noticed my partner's nervousness, their uncertainty, the way they were clammed up before sex.. At that point I began to work around with it, finding pleasure in pushing them further then they were comfortable with, providing new experiences.. Over 10 years ago..

Aibo · Sep 2, 2011

I have a distinct feeling this question have been asked before.
But I reply happily anyhow. =)
I know that it was obvious to me extremely early on, pre puberty, and even in childhood that I were wired somewhat different. I got exited - fast breath - and felt one exaltation when I bound people when playing cowboys and indians / cops and robbers or whatever.
For years I tried to hide this from others, when I were young there were no Internet I never had anyone to talk with, and I only did find references to this in literature and whatever.
In highschool I finally revealed it to a female, who were all chocked by the idea. Though I had a hunch she had somewhat of this inclination, so my first attempt to find one likeminded failed.
It took until the age of 22 before I got started. Even so it was not a great start, I was so nervous I sweated rivers. =)

Penny · Sep 3, 2013

Guess I'll rekindle the thread because I'm curious if there are any others who started out younger.

I do not believe I was ever sexually abused in childhood, If I was I certainly have no recollection (so I assume not).

I was somewhere between 6 and 8 when I started having fantasies about various Beauty and the Beast possibilities. Not to mention Robin of Sherwood (Lady Marian being taken by the evil sorcerer). It sounds so wrong. I did not enter into a bdsm relationship until I was 18.

thinmint7 · Sep 10, 2013

This has always been a part of me, i did not realize until about a year ago, though looking back i cannot remember a time when i was not into it. i am not sure where the thoughts came from, they have just been there....

Forgotten angel · Sep 21, 2013

I found out when i started cuddling my girlfriend with my head in her chest instead of vice versa. It was obvious that i was the submissive one lol. It really went from there.

self discovery through cuddling, whoda thought, right? Lol

valentinorosi · Sep 24, 2013

At the age of 16.....

matmitmot · Sep 28, 2013

about few years ago

DirtyBitchBell · Oct 8, 2013

I guess I have always had a very submissive nature. But I was never really aware of it until I met my Master 7 months ago.
He was asking all kinds of questions, and my responses made me realise I was a submissive. And now I am his collared submissive

ShalaviNET · Oct 17, 2013

This has always been a part of me, i did not realize until about a year ago, though looking back i cannot remember a time when i was not into it. i am not sure where the thoughts came from, they have just been there....

GentlemanJay · Oct 17, 2013

In my every day life I was always a little submissive but certain things happening to me made me actively become more assertive and have more control in my life. Sexually I also leaned more towards submissive however lately have been turned on at being dominant which is why I am here to explore this side of me in more depth

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