I'm new here and I have a question. What's it called when you want to take a girl and rape the shit out of her but say really sweet things to her while you're doing it? You would legitimately care about her and love her, but you'd also want to dominate her until she breaks, realizes there's nothing she can do, and gives up. Is this a legitimate thing? This is obviously for roleplay. Here's what I'm trying to do. I would want to scare the shit out of her. If I was just brutal and sadistic to her all around, then she would know what to expect, and then she could prepare some kind of psychological defense. But I wouldn't want her to know what's gonna happen. Second, I would just want to love her. I would want to wipe the tears off her face and tell her it's gonna be okay. Is this an actual fetish, and if it is, where can I find out more about it?