We married couple

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by canon32, Mar 28, 2010.

  1. canon32

    canon32 New Member

    Good afternoon. We married couple from Russia. We not as cannot find the answer to a question. Both of us like to be slaves. How this direction in a theme bdsm is called???
    Prompt please where it is possible to look that that similar??
     
  2. Sparrow69

    Sparrow69 Moderator

    your best bet is to look in the personals on this very page, or even post an advertisement of your own there. There are quite a few russian Dominants here. Are you still in russia or do you live elsewhere?
     
  3. canon32

    canon32 New Member

    We live in Russia. It is interesting to us to look thematic sites on the given subjects, video materials. Help to find that that similar.
     
  4. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    Until you find a dom that you can both sub for, you might explore taking turns dominating the other one. Obviously that's going to be less satisfying, but it at least gives you a chance to explore and get a sense of what you might like from a dom.
     
  5. canon32

    canon32 New Member


    Whether tell please there are sites on which it is possible to see a photo and ведео materials of such meetings?
     
  6. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    Hmm. I don't know if there are sites specifically devoted to switching (which is what it's called when a dom subs or a sub doms). Maybe someone else knows of one. But in a scene like that, one of you will play the dom role for the scene, while the other subs. You could build a scene that involves explicitly switching roles in the middle, but it might be easier to just agree that tonight, you're going to be the sub and your partner will be the dom. It will be up to her/him to do to you something that s/he wants you to do the next night as a dom. Perhaps tie you up and torture your nipples, verbally tease and abuse you, or just dress you in sexy or humiliating clothes and have sex exactly the way s/he wants. Anything that a regular dom might do is something a temporary dom can try. Again, it's less satisfying than having a full-time dom who really gets off on doing it, but until you find a dom, this might be your best option.
     
  7. canon32

    canon32 New Member

    We are both inclined to be submissive towards a 3rd person then it simply means that: that you're both submissives/slaves
     
  8. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    Absolutely. But it seems to me that until you find a dom, you and your partner are stuck with two choices: either one of you takes on the responsibilities of the dom temporarily to please the other, or you both wait and just accept that your submissive urges will not be met until you find a dom to serve. Neither of you can serve without someone _to_ serve. So either figure out how to temporarily serve each other or wait to serve.
     

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