training advice needed :)

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by misty82, Jan 18, 2009.

  1. misty82

    misty82 New Member

    My boyfriend and I are both switches and lately he's been talking a lot about wanting me to train him to enjoy eating cum. He's the first boyfriend I've ever had who not only lets me train him but really wants it. Does anybody have any advice as to a step by step plan that I can use to get him to enjoy eating his own sperm (and eventually possibly eating other men's cum).

    Some might think that this proves that he's into humiliation but not really. He's got bisexual fantasies and tendencies, enjoying the taste and texture of cum is simply a natural step towards getting him to be able to act out those fantasies. I love cum, male or female and don't see swallowing it as humiliating in the least. He says it's the taste and texture that he has a hard time liking, not the actual thought of it. I don't plan to degrade him in any way, just to find a way to encourage him to enjoy the flavours.

    The biggest challenge is that we're a long distance relationship at the moment as he lives in Belgium and I'm stuck here in the states until I can get the proper paperwork to join him. We get ten to twenty days together every couple months but most of our daily life and sex life is on webcam with one another while watching videos or reading stories.

    As for limits, neither of us are into pain / humiliation and we're careful not to let the D&S spill over too much into our daily lives. To both of us it's just playtime, not a lifestyle.

    So yeah, if anybody has any ideas as to how I can get him to enjoy eating cum, I would really appreciate it. My future goals for him include cleaning up his own cum after he jerks off, sucking his cum out of me after we have sex, and possibly eating the cum of other men in the future (after they fuck me or straight from the source as he's got some fantasies of giving other men head as well).
  2. ReallyGreen

    ReallyGreen Member

    Have him drink cranberry juice on a regular basis.
  3. misty82

    misty82 New Member

    That's good advice for making it taste better. What I'm trying to find though is some sort of guide for how to get him from eating it only reluctantly and disliking the flavour and texture to where he eats it without needing to be ordered to do it, because he's started to like it.

    If I could come up with some sort of step-by-step plan, that would be best as I'm so new to the D&S stuff that I never know where to start or what to do next.
  4. RRR1609

    RRR1609 Member

    in what way does the cranberry juice help? My master is wanting me to eat his cum, and I have the same problem with disliking the taste and texture, but I want to please him.
  5. MrAero

    MrAero Member

    Do the cranberries affect his taste buds or his semen's flavor?
  6. ReallyGreen

    ReallyGreen Member

    Cranberry juice will remove the somewhat "bleachy" taste of his cum. The texture issue remains the same but it greatly improves flavor.

    Drink 10 to 20/oz a day for 3 days, should be a noticeable improvement (I like the Ocean Spray brand stuff).
  7. ReallyGreen

    ReallyGreen Member

    Cranberry juice is also good for your renal system according to most doctors, so a life with fewer kidney stones is never a bad idea.

    I've also heard pineapple juice will change a man's semen flavor, but can't get that locally regularly enough to try anything.
  8. At the moment, I don't take my master's come in my mouth, because I've always hated the taste of any man's. Maybe I'll ask him to try all these fruit juices, and see if that does make a difference.
  9. sparkie

    sparkie New Member

    You stated the answer.

    Have sex with another male then, while your slave is still very exited, have him service you. Don't let him know about the other male. He will not know. I had a dominant couple do this to me over a long period of time before I relized what she was doing. The idea exited her to no end. Her end goal was to have me service him orallyas she directed the event. I finally was trained to do it but the taste was not the same...I did not like it. After getting the cum in my mouth she would hold her gloved hand over my mouth so none would escape. Another trick she used was to quickly snap on a surgical mask and make me lick it clean before she removed it. What I finally learned , to deal with the taste, is to swallow as quickly as possible as the cum was fired into my mouth.

  10. Thats amazing. Some time ago, I used to drink Ocean Spray 'light' every morning, simply because I liked the stuff, nothing more, and I was told once by someone, around that time, that ' Your cum tastes lovely' ..... At the time, I thought it was a nice thing to say, if a little odd. Only now, on this forum, have I made the connection.
  11. Then you will have to share my supply of Ocean Spray when you come round in future, instead of drinking tea :)
  12. ReallyGreen

    ReallyGreen Member

    Now you know
    And knowing is half the battle
  13. RRR1609

    RRR1609 Member

    All this information is very helpful. I will talk to my master about drinking cranberry juice!
  14. ReallyGreen

    ReallyGreen Member

    Am I the only person who didn't have a problem? I mean I could name 25 things far worse to have in your mouth....

    1. Deli turkey 7 days past its expiration date.
    1. Accidently taking a gulp from somebody's chewing-tobacco spit bottle. (tied for 1)
    2. Barium milkshake you drink before an MRI
    3. June bug (I ride motorbikes)
    4. clam/oyster with sand in it
    5. "fireflies" from smoking pot in an unfiltered glass pipe
    6. old gum
    7. 9 volt battery
    8. Durian (its a fruit, look it up)
    9. menstrual blood
    10. blood clot from aforementioned vagina
    11. vagina with a yeast infection
    12. tapioca
    13. bread pudding
    14. monk fish
    15. beef w/ black bean sauce (served at the local chinese take-out)
    16. soft boiled egg
    17. Miracle Whip®
    18. coffee grounds
    19. McDonald's Fish Fillet
    20. bug spray
    21. canned cat food
    22. potted meat
    23. chitlins
    24. grits
    25. human feces (if you think semen is bad just wait for toilet training)
  15. Leilani

    Leilani New Member

    Haha, the "Cum Brulee" thread springs to mind.

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