My husband and I are not even close to this point yet but who knows maybe over time.....mostly though we are equals until it's time to go to bed. I guess my questions are for the 24/7 couples. How did you get there? Do you still have other stuff that you do like work/school? Does your master/sir make ALL decisions (where you live, what you wear etc) or is that micromanaging someone? And who has time to do that anyway? Did you write up a contract? Is it permanent or could your master in theory give you away to someone (or is that just something that happens in fiction)? I can't imagine being vulnerable with someone only for them to give me away. Thanks!