Hi, I've been interested in BDSM for a long time. I'm very in control of my life and myself and I've always wanted someone who could just take it all away and make me the one not in control. I've always loved the thought of being a 'pet' and given orders in a relationship, being restrained and dealt some sort of pain during sexual experiences, but I come from a very traditional family where thoughts like these are highly 'veto' and just a cry for attention, so I was wondering, how do you know if BDSM is something for you? How do I know if I'm 'cut out' for it and not just experience normal fantasies? Thanks in advance for any responses.