So, on another forum I'm on, there's a TON of threads of different types of slavery. I came across a paragraph though that I thought was interesting and wanted to get the thoughts from all of you. "Believe it or not, the dynamics of a BDSM relationship are often driven by the submissive, not by the dominant. The submissive sets the limits; the submissive decides what places can and can not be explored; the submissive has the ability to call a halt to the scene. The dominant, in many ways, is simply a facilitator. It's the dominant's job to create a setting where the people involved can explore the submissive's fantasies." The thread goes on the argue that since it is the sub that is in control of the scene, that in reality, it is the sub that holds the power and is therefore dominant. What are your thoughts on this?