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Josh, it is not unreasonable for you to be concerned about being outed as into bdsm. It's not really socially acceptable, although I think it's a little more acceptable than it used to be--certainly no one I've outed myself to has reacted poorly (including my 78 year old mother). Depending on what you do for a living, it's not inconceivable that you could lose your job (I have a friend who lost her job at a day care center when a newspaper ran a photo of her at a fetish show). So a certain degree of caution is advisable.
However, I think it would be extremely unlikely that anyone on this forum would do that. First, we don't know your name or address or email or photo or anything like that, so if you keep those private, we have no way to track you down. Second, we're all in the same boat as you are. We can't really out you without outing ourselves. Third, all of us are conscious of these problems, and empathize to some degree with your worries, so we wouldn't want to do it. Fourth, I suspect that most of us here would like to see bdsm play become more socially acceptable, and using it as a weapon to ruin someone's life simply increases the stigma a little bit. Finally, from what I've seen, we're all pretty decent, moral, caring, supportive people here. I haven't seen anyone here who has struck me as malicious or emotionally unstable (although there was an incident before I joined involving a sub who told some pretty huge lies to get attention--she is no longer around).
So I think the odds of anyone here intentionally outing you are very small. Not zero, but extremely small. If you're concerned about it, simply don't say anything in your posts that could positively identify you and the risk drops virtually to zero.
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