I'm not really sure how to put this, but my boyfriend and I have hit a wall in our sex life. We enjoy our normal sex a lot, but as you probably know, we've been exploring a lot with our bondage/domination sides. We recently had some very interesting sessions, and I made it a weekly thing, rewarding him at the end of the week based on his behavior. It was great, but now I'm out of ideas. We had a night where we would swap sex stories we'd find online/in magazines, so that helped open the door a little bit, and once I found out his ultimate fantasy, well- let's just say I acted on it. Now that his ultimate fantasy has been explored, I feel as if there's nowhere to go from here. I'd hate for us to come all this way, then to get bored, because I truly feel almost enlightened by the experience. I'm not saying I thoroughly enjoy it now, but I've become more open to it. I need some help sparking some ideas on different ways to dominate him. If you want a brief description of what we've done thus far, you can PM me- I don't know how he'd feel about me just blurting out his biggest fantasies on a message board for all to see. I really do feel like I've hit a wall, and I want to be able to keep surprising him. The past month or so, I've been shocking him/surprising him every Friday with how far I've been going for him. I'd love to keep doing that. It makes me happy to see him happy. =] Thanks!