For me, being a switch has a real down side to it. Specifically to do with my masochistic side... I more often than not find my self playing dom, because my partners aren't dom enough to even try getting passed my disobedient and cheeky flirtation. And even when they man up enough to do so, they never seem to do it right... They're always holding back way too much! I mean seriously, is a guy getting roughed up properly a little too much to ask...!? Do any other switches have this problem? Regardless of gender, or which side of playtime seems to be missing....?