subtle in public.

the_wife_doesnt_know · May 12, 2011

Hi there new to the forum though have been lurking for a while.

I have just gained a cute little sub who is still very disobedient, i need some subtle ways of humiliating her in public, though only her and i need know.

Any advice would be apprectiated

sexyslave991 · May 13, 2011

Try something to remind her of her submission at all times, such as attatching clamps to her nipples or vagina under her clothing. Some people I know get a short dildo, shove it in, tape over and leave the slave like that all day.

the_wife_doesnt_know · May 13, 2011

thank you for the advice,

any more ideas would be helpful.

i should also add that i have to do most my control over sms/text if that makes a difference?

meripa · May 14, 2011

You can also try a remote-control-vibrator.

Also a nice idea is to make your slave wear high boots and a long coat and nothing under it
The feeling that somebody may notice this little secret is really incredible

master jey · May 14, 2011

Also a nice idea is to make your slave wear high boots and a long coat and nothing under it
The feeling that somebody may notice this little secret is really incredible

I like this idea
Also you can dress her like slut and wright on her "slut"

Smallest · May 15, 2011

You can text her commands (that don't include flashing or anything else she may be arrested for, I hope), and make her send you pictures as proof.

If she cums on command, that would certainly work. You can make her humiliate herself, perhaps through telling someone she's a slut, similar to what master jey said.

And if you're together, you can make her walk behind you, and abstain from eye contact, if you don't already. That's not so much humiliation, but it still keeps her in place

This isn't something I've personally done, and I'm submissive plus I don't have a cell, but I'll think more. Let us know what you do, I'm curious.

sebastian · May 15, 2011

Good suggestions, but I would argue that having her tell someone (like a stranger) that she's a slut is inappropriate. BDSM is consensual, and when you play in public you have to be careful not to involve anyone who hasn't consented. Telling a stranger something like that involves someone who hasn't consented to being involved, and in fact it might be quite disturbing. offensive, or humiliating to someone to be told something like that.

Smallest · May 15, 2011

I wasn't sure if that bordered on losing consent of other people, like flashing someone (as I mentioned). At a base level, it doesn't seem any different than labelling them as a slut, but if they're telling someone, it's singling out that person as well, so it's wrong before even touching the concept of consent. So yeah, that was bad on my part.

Seb's right anyway, OP, and even if he wasn't, you always want to go with the most consensual option.

sillylittlepet · May 17, 2011

you could make her wear a collar in public or go without panties/bra (white shirt with no bra could be pretty humiliating)

Short skirts with no panties, she has to address you as "master" in public (if you're long distance, then she talks on the phone to you).

If you're eating a restaurant, you could do all the ordering for her, don't let her speak to the waiter/waitress.

Pick out her clothes for her, something too small or immodest (or on the flip side, really ugly and unflattering)

There's lots of fun stuff when it comes to public play! =D

Smallest · May 17, 2011

SLP, you're back!

I like the idea of making her say Master in public, or on the phone when in public. Your first idea, too, since isn't indecent technically, but

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